MARRIAGE COUNSELING & COUPLES COUNSELING

When you got married you never expected your relationship would end up being full of SO MUCH drama and pain.

You love your partner, but your life has made it difficult to find the time to connect with each other. Now, you don't feel as close as you used to.

You have the same arguments with your spouse over and over again.

Both of you want to make your marriage work, but you're not sure how to fix the damage in your relationship.

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Marriage is supposed to be one of life’s most precious gifts. But, sadly, it can also become one of life’s greatest sources of pain and distress. You entered into marriage expecting satisfaction, joy, and companionship. But after time your marriage is full of anxiety, isolation, and disappointment. No matter how hard you try, you cannot seem to stop disappointing or hurting each other. Maybe, your marriage has become so painful that you have turned to alcohol, workaholism, or extramarital affairs to numb the pain. Perhaps, you and your spouse have hurt each other so much that you have shut down emotionally. You avoid one other, and you're essentially living like frustrated roommates. 

Marriage is Hard and These Struggles are Common

At Vitus Counseling, I encounter marital problems such as these on a regular basis. If you decide to work with me, I am confident that I can help you and your spouse. At my Nashville, TN counseling clinic you will find a calm, understanding, and nonjudgmental place where you can discuss your issues. We will also talk about your backgrounds, beliefs, and behaviors to see how they might be impacting your relationship. I will support you and help you to improve your marriage. In counseling, you both will learn how to work through conflict and connect with each other again.

My Approach to MARRIAGE Counseling in brentwood, TN and the nashville area

I will use several therapeutic interventions to help you and your spouse find healing and happiness. In counseling, I primarily utilize the Gottman Method.

Some of the primary tools that I will teach you in Christian couples counseling include:

  • Strategies to process old wounds

  • Techniques to resolve conflict

  • Tools to help you talk about unsolvable problems in a more productive way

  • Suggestions to increase fondness and intimacy

  • Techniques to regulate extreme, destructive emotions that often occur during and after conflicts.

I always tailor my counseling approach to be appropriate for your particular situation. My goal is to meet your needs as a couple and help strengthen your relationship.

Marriage Counseling is Appropriate for Couples with All Kinds of Challenges

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It should be noted that couples counseling is not just for couples who are in the midst of a crisis, like couples considering separation or divorce. Actually, marriage counseling can be quite helpful for couples who are just struggling, and it even works for couples with good marriages. Couples counseling is helpful for couples who are simply in need of support during challenging times. For example, some couples seek help during hard times such as during the birth of a new child, the death of a loved one, or the loss of a job. In fact, I like to think of couples counseling as a "marriage tune-up." If a couple chooses to come to counseling early on in the course of their problems then it can prevent further pain and dysfunction down the road. Nonetheless, whether you are experiencing growing pains in your marriage or your marriage is in need of serious repair, I can help. Working together we can help you to build a sound and secure marriage. A marriage that is filled with joy and is marked by trust, commitment, and safety. 

Begin marriage Counseling in brentwood, TN

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If you're ready to heal the hurt in your relationship and move forward in a healthy way, I am here to support you. I specialize in providing Catholic marriage counseling, and secular marriage counseling in the Nashville area. I also provide online marriage counseling in TN for couples who cannot make it to my counseling clinic. To begin marriage counseling in Brentwood, TN follow these three steps: 

  1. Contact me by emailing stucook@vituscounseling.com or calling (615)-709-5779.

  2. Set up an appointment for couples counseling.

  3. Join me for couples counseling and learn the tools to have a fulfilling and peaceful relationship with the person you love!

OTHER SERVICES OFFERED BY STU COOK AT VITUS COUNSELING

In addition to marriage counseling, I offer a variety of therapy services in Brentwood, TN that are designed to provide light in the dark places. I offer Catholic counseling, anxiety treatment, depression treatment, ADHD treatment, treatment for OCD, family counseling, Brainspotting, trauma treatment, and addiction treatment. If you can’t make it to my counseling clinic, but live in the state of Tennessee, I would be happy to help you with online therapy. If you’re looking for mental health support on timely topics, please visit my blog for great resources. Reach out to me today to learn more about the many ways I can help you and your spouse heal.